If you’ve noticed that you have been having trouble keeping a relationship, there is a chance that some of the things you are saying are making women lose interest in you almost instantly. With the feminism movement being alive and stronger than ever, some men are finding that women aren’t behaving in the same way that they used to. If you feel like things start off well every time you date someone new, only to end abruptly without so much as an explanation, you can almost be certain that it has to do with something you said.
You’re a Traditional Man
Telling a woman that you’re a traditional man can often set off a bunch of red flags for her, especially if you don’t explain what you mean. When women hear, “traditional man,” they tend to think that you are the type of man who believes that men should work, and that women should stay home and raise the children. They may also thick that you will be the type to make all the rules and expect her to follow them without argument.
While some women are okay with this, we’ve found that most of them definitely don’t want have anything to do with a traditional man. If you don’t want to send her running away, try to avoid telling her that you’re a traditional man. Instead, rephrase what you are in a manner that makes her things she’s getting a great deal. Instead of saying that you think a man should work and a woman should stay home. Tell her that you prefer to work hard, so that your lady can relax and enjoy the home that the two of you have made. This way she feels like she’s being spoiled, rather than controlled.
You’re Not Looking for Anything Too Serious
Telling a woman that you’re not looking for anything too serious is simply a roundabout way of telling her that you are only looking for sex. Some women are find with having a friends with benefits relationship, but even if they are, you will lose face with them when you fail to be upfront about what you want. If you want to play the field, let her know, but do it in a way that tells her that you’re fine with her doing the same thing.
A way to do this would be to tell her that you’re not looking for a committed relationship, and that you prefer to date women who date other men in addition to you. This will tell women that you know what you want, and that you’re OK with her doing her own thing as well. Women respect men who are honest with them, so don’t beat around the bush. You’ll get better results if you tell her what you want bluntly, but respectfully.
You Think There Are Just Some Things Women Shouldn’t Do (You’re Not a Feminist)
Telling a woman that you’re not a feminist is the final nail in the coffin (expect for those women who aren’t feminists either). If you ever say the words, “I think there are just some things women shouldn’t do,” you can expect to get all of your phone calls ignored afterward. While in the past it seemed like women tried to do just about everything to make men pleased with their existence, now it seems like they simply don’t care what men think they should and shouldn’t do. In fact, sometimes it seems like they do the opposite just to spite some men.
If you ever want to get a second date, try to keep your opinions about what you think women shouldn’t do to yourself. You don’t have to change your opinion, you just shouldn’t et her know about it.
It’s getting more difficult to keep women impressed. Some of them are willing to give us the benefit of the doubt as long as we don’t say something that turns them off. Whether you’ve just started dating a woman, or you’ve been dating her for a few months, try to avoid saying any of these three things to her. Once you say them, it’s almost impossible to convince her that you were just joking, or that you didn’t mean anything disrespectful by it.